“You don't owe it to him to tell him, but rather you owe it to yourself to tell him. You don't want to be kicking yourself for the rest of your life because he is the one that got away,” says Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On, Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less.


Can you speak up if he’s not spoken for?
Let’s say you bump into your ex and you’re both still single, now what are the rules?

“If he's single and you feel strongly, I say go for it. What do you have to lose?” says Monica Mason, 31.

Ayn Laherty, 28, disagrees. She says, “If he was so great, he would be telling you how much he loves you. Girls deserve better than to beg for love.”

She brings up a good point. Whether it’s too late or too early, should the girl ever say “I love you” first?