Dozens of botched dates later, I walked up her front steps ready to prostrate myself for my most recent screw-up and found an envelope with my name taped to the doorknob. Inside were seven Scrabble tiles. It took me a minute to sort them out, but finally I realized that the letters arranged spelled out the word “GOODBYE.”

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