1.    Is he able to tolerate his feelings?

2.    How good does he feel about himself as a man? Does he feel safe when he loves?

3.    Does love seem turbulent to him, an impossible chase?

4.    Does love seem to him to be more for women? Does it threaten his masculinity?

5.    Would he rather have a night out with the boys then spend long hours with the person he loves?

6.    How able is he to love, in general? Does he hold most of life in loving regard?

7.    How much does he express his love daily in what he does?

8.    Does he fall in love easily, and out of love just as easily?

9.    Does he have to defend himself constantly, feeling that people can’t really be trusted?

10.    Does love feel like another mountain to conquer to him?

11.    Does he feel that if you let yourself love, you are bound to get hurt and stepped on?

12.    Is the ability to love one of the main goals of his life?

13.    How hard is he willing to work for love? Is he willing to give a great deal?

14.    Does life seem not worth living without love?

15.    How good is he at compromise? Does he need to have all his needs met all the time?

16.    Are love and fantasy intermingled for him? Can he tell the difference?

17.    Does he feel that love is possession and attachment?

18.    Are there many strings to his love? Is it too expensive?

19.    Is he able to find love in the small moments of the day?