Do the Holidays Equal Relationship Doom?
Say you're in a long-term relationship, and you're just biding your time until January. Well, there's nothing that says, "I can't wait to dump you" like a crappy or impersonal gift. Women who are in it 'till January will generally try to fake it and will give a gift that is not overly personal, but also not a clear indication of relationship doom. Men, however, frequently become affected by short-timer's disease and end up giving reasonably-priced, gift-wrapped-in-the-shopping-bag, white-elephant-esque gifts that have been purchased at either the electronics store, or worse, the Gas-N-Go three blocks from your apartment.
A terrible gift has long been a sign of impending breakup. I've heard dozens of stories of three- and four-year relationships that ended bluntly following a bizarrely bad gift exchange. It wasn't the gift that ended the relationship; it was merely a sign of things to come.
Of course, a bad gift doesn't always have to mean your paramour is planning to dump you like last week's spaghetti once January hits. It could just mean that your sweetie is madly in love with you, but has really horrific taste—and you can look forward to many, many years of individually-wrapped-in-cellophane roses, radio-controlled cars, sausage-of-the-month clubs and green plastic phones.
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great advice!It's been such a dilemma to find a gift for this new guy I just barely started seeing. Glad to know someone else recognizes this too.
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I love that Bridget Jones scene! I know what you mean, lisalove.
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I LOVE this article, it is SOOOO true. I'm single and expect to be through the new year and therefore expect to be "pitied" "alone" and ringing in the new year like Bridget Jones (singing into an empty bottle of wine-HA)! Too many years I've "stuck" with someoene because it was the holidays. Nothing worse than spending money on someone you know you won't be with in a month.
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