Unfortunately the source has not been found, though it is believed that it has existed since the dawn of the institution of marriage. A short-term condition (symptoms persist about one to two years depending on one’s wedding date), Bridezillas seem to have been unfairly blamed for their actions, for which some believe they have no control, albeit their control over everything else. In fact, it’s been proven that a Bridezilla actually does have feelings—feelings of selfishness, insecurity, anxiousness and stress!

Though it’s been said there is no cure, there are ways to prevent infection of BS. A survey of healthy brides, whom successfully planned their weddings without contracting the disease, was conducted. Results showed commonalities of the actions performed to avoid the disorder. Doctors, psychologists and wedding planners strongly suggest the following preventative therapy:

Keep perspective. Remind yourself that the wedding is only one day in your life. When things get out of control, close your eyes and remember the reason why you are planning this wedding in the first place.

Don’t assume your groom doesn’t want to help. Ask him what he’d like to take responsibility for and then let him. (Note: Some grooms may follow the cliché and decline this offer.)

Know that you can’t control everything. Realize this and accept it!

Delegate. Delegate. Delegate. If you act like you can handle everything, people will let you. Spread the duties.

Don't sweat the small stuff. People won’t remember whether or not your invitations had those cute little tissues enclosed.

Treat the people you cherish with love. The wedding is one day; your family and friends are forever.