Don’t assume your groom doesn’t want to help. Ask him what he’d like to take responsibility for and then let him. (Note: Some grooms may follow the cliché and decline this offer.)

Know that you can’t control everything. Realize this and accept it!

Delegate. Delegate. Delegate. If you act like you can handle everything, people will let you. Spread the duties.

Don't sweat the small stuff. People won’t remember whether or not your invitations had those cute little tissues enclosed.

Treat the people you cherish with love. The wedding is one day; your family and friends are forever.

Allow others to vent. Give your fiancé, family and bridesmaids permission to tell you when you’re going off the deep-end.

Take the heat. Give yourself permission to hear them.