SM: How many parties would you say hire strippers or go to strip clubs?
DB: I would say somewhere near one in two. And how many times it comes up is probably more, it just depends on how many guys get it together to actually plan it. Men aren’t always good at planning things, so I think there’re a lot of plans that don’t ever come to fruition.

SM: How many men would you say do something that could be considered cheating at a bachelor party?
DB: One thing I learned is that the groom is a little bit less likely than his friends to do something; and I think the married men are more likely to do something. This came up over and over when I was talking to strippers and talking to married men. It’s his friends that [are more likely to] get an extra-curricular activity, whatever that may be—a blow job, a hand job or further—because all eyes aren’t on the friends and for a lot of guys it is a chance to let their hair down.

SM: How common are these extra-curriculars you mentioned?
DB: I would say 1 in 10, somewhere around there. But it also depends on how you define it. Is a lap dance crossing the line? Some would say yes and some no. Beyond that I would say the more intimate in nature the act the number does go down. But it does happen.