6. How honest are you about your finances?
  1. I keep my credit card balances and frequent shopping sprees a secret.
  2. He knows I have student loans and a weakness for shoes, but we haven’t discussed specifics.
  3. We share all our financial details; we want to know what we’re getting in to.

7. What are you most looking forward to about your wedding?
  1. My dress and shoes
  2. The reception
  3. Saying those vows in front of my family and friends

8. When borrowing his laptop to check your e-mail, you notice his e-mail account is open. Do you check it out?
  1. Of course. I read all the e-mails I can before he comes back in the room.
  2. I’d be tempted and might take a quick peek at the inbox, but I wouldn’t open any.
  3. No way, I trust him completely.

9. Think back to your last fight. What happened?
  1. We yelled, called each other names, then didn’t speak for two days.
  2. We yelled, called each other names, then calmed down and worked it out.
  3. We yelled, then talked about what was wrong and reached a compromise.

10. How often do you see your friends?
  1. All the time. I’m out with them practically every night.
  2. Rarely. My boyfriend and I don’t have time for friends.
  3. Occasionally. I try to split my time between my friends and my boyfriend.

11. Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
  1. Who can think that far ahead? I barely know where I’ll be in 10 days.
  2. Ideally, living in France with my husband by my side, of course.
  3. With my husband, our kids and our stable jobs in the city.

12. How important is saving money to you two?
  1. Why save when you can spend?
  2. I’ve got some money tucked away, not sure about him though …
  3. We’re both saving for our future home, vacations, etc.