4. How well do you get along with his family?
  1. I haven’t actually met them yet.
  2. His mom and/or dad hate me, but they’ll come around.
  3. They all love me; we’re just one big happy family.

5. When you think of the words “wedding” and “marriage,” you picture:
  1. A stressful planning process and then a lifetime with the same person.
  2. Your dress, the colors of your reception tables, the flowers, the cake …
  3. A party celebrating your love followed by a lifetime with your soulmate.

6. How honest are you about your finances?
  1. I keep my credit card balances and frequent shopping sprees a secret.
  2. He knows I have student loans and a weakness for shoes, but we haven’t discussed specifics.
  3. We share all our financial details; we want to know what we’re getting in to.

7. What are you most looking forward to about your wedding?
  1. My dress and shoes
  2. The reception
  3. Saying those vows in front of my family and friends