20.    Do many people love him? Does he believe he deserves this?


ANSWERS    

Group A: Warriors, Heroes, Adventurers
(Questions 3, 4, 5, 10) Score 12 points or more

These men see love as an obstacle course and enjoy the challenge it presents. They like to conquer women, and often feel as though the thrill is gone once she is his. These men create difficulties and intrigue in their relationships to keep them alive and challenging. Love is where they prove their prowess, not necessarily a place of intimacy.

Group B: Lovers, Dreamers, Peter Pans
(Questions 1, 8, 14, 16) Score 12 points or more

These men often view love as a heightened romance, filled with poetry, dreams and peak experiences. They do not necessarily enjoy the daily work of sitting down and communicating about nitty-gritty problems that arise. When too many problems appear, these men feel that love has gone. They want their feelings known magically, without saying a word.

Group C: Controllers, Perfectionists, Addicts
(Questions 9, 11, 17, 18) Score 12 points or more

For these men, love includes control and dominance. When their partner is willing to do as they wish, fulfill their needs, demands and fantasies, these men feel strong. When the partner expresses a mind or life of her own, they feel threatened, and as though the “love” is disappearing. These men confuse love with possession, attachment and dependency. They are afraid of equal, mutual relationships, where their inner selves will be exposed.