And finally, know that safer sex is often longer-lasting sex. Not only will a condom take a little of the oversensitive edge off, but these days many condoms are designed for guys with PE and come with names like "Her Pleasure," as well as a drop of lidocaine at the tip, which will render him comfortably—no, make that ecstatically—numb.

Squeeze, Please, At Ease. Got it? You have your marching orders, Lieutenant of Love—now go turn your minute-man into a sexual superman (one who's thankfully not faster than a speeding bullet).

 Ian Kerner, Ph.D., FAACS, is the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, selected by Amazon.com and Borders as a “Best of 2004” non-fiction title. A companion book, He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man was published in January 2006. Ian also authored The New York Times best seller Be Honest-- You're Not That Into Him Either. Ian lives in New York City with his wife, son, and Jack Russell Terrier.