As you do this, caress your breasts and hair with your arms and hands.

The Marilyn Pose
Stand up straight and, still with your feet together, shift your weight from one foot to the other, bending the knees slightly as you do so. Bend forwards with your knees straight and push your breasts together, either with your hands or upper arms. Your breasts should be level with your lover’s eyes. Slowly stand up straight again and undulate your hips or sway.

The Turn
Lap dancing is about showing off all your assets, so remember to turn around occasionally. For the best effect, turn slowly—your lover should barely notice.

When you practice, work out which direction is most natural for you to turn in. And don’t be overly concerned with how you do it; just take small steps and aim to make the turn blend into and become part of your dance. Keep circling your hips, and remember your arm movements. As far as possible, try to keep your lover in your gaze as you turn.

The Slap and Tickle
Turn your back to your audience and, with straight legs, bend forwards slightly, look back at him coquettishly and stroke or lightly slap your bottom. I guarantee this will make him smile.

Alternatively, still with your back to him, gently sway from your ankles, opening your legs gradually. Slowly, bend over so that your bottom is brazenly pointing at your man. Bend one knee to the side and straighten the other out to the other side. Glide your hand up the straight leg and raise your head over the corresponding shoulder to look back at him. Slap your bottom hard. Repeat on the other side.

The Breast Stroke
Move closely into the space between his knees. Standing with your legs straight, gently lean forward and place your hands on either side of the chair. Once you have a firm hold, push your breasts towards his face; his nose should be nestled in your cleavage. For added effect, try brushing from side to side and stroking the end of his nose with your bra or nipple. Keep moving in a provocative way throughout.