What if I call out the wrong name in bed?
Yikes, this is some people’s biggest fear, but if it happens to you, Kerner says to laugh it off and act like it’s not a big deal (you can cringe on the inside).

How can I recover if I make an embarrassing move in bed?
It happens: You do something mortifying—maybe a move he really didn’t like or he did something you found weird—and it can be tough to get past it.

“Sometimes you’ve got to just write it off as this person and I are not going to have sex again. Other times, if it’s maybe a good friend and you decided to hook up, that’s a situation where you might be able to find a way to joke about it. But you want to make sure that they’re on the same thinking level as you first. You don’t want them thinking it was the best night of their life and you’re thinking it was horrible,” Post says.

What if after sex I decide I don’t want to see this person again?
“Let them know. Don’t just do the forget-about-it, never-call-them-again thing. Show some courtesy. You’ve been naked with this person, you know? Respect the fact that people are adults and they can handle the truth,” Post says.