The key to becoming sexually confident is to love yourself and truly believe you are deserving of pleasure. Every woman, even the meekest among us, can learn to embrace her inner vixen. All it takes is a change in attitude. Don’t ask if you are sexy; know you are. Then do something everyday to remind yourself how wonderful you are. If you need help getting started, below are a few suggestions to help. Think of it like exercising: The more often you do it the stronger and more confident you will become.

Steps to becoming a sexually confident woman.
  • Self-pleasure regularly. It helps you understand your body parts and how they work.
  • Dress sexy every day. Why wait for a special occasion to feel special? Throw out the faded baggy sweatpants. In fact, get rid of any clothes that make you feel old, fat or unattractive. Don’t even wear them around the house when no one is looking.
    • Dress everyday just because it makes you feel good about you. Work hard to feel attractive for yourself, not for him. For him, it becomes a chore; for you, it becomes a necessity! It gives you the desire to walk tall and put a swing in your step because you know you look marvelous! Dress in colors that compliment your complexion. Wear sensual fabrics that feel good against your skin.
  • Invest in sexy underwear. Few things make a woman feel sexier than a pretty matching bra and panty or thong set. Wear it under your everyday clothing. Yes, even on days when only you will see it. Your sexy secret will increase your sexual thoughts and your desire. And if you feel like sharing this bit of personal information with someone else, feel free.