Take control.
It's a long-known strategy for guys to use reverse psychology to get a girl in the sack. The best way to guarantee a lay? Insist it's not going to happen.

When women do it, it can be coy or coercing, playful or powerful. And sexperts insist that setting the boundaries of an intercourse-less night can be much hotter than you’d think. Remember foreplay? That thing you used to do before sex? How about an entire night of it? No running for the finish line, just enjoying the journey.

Have fun.
Flirty is fun. And a woman who’s having fun is almost always sexy. While men may be over childhood playground games, bedroom games (and grown-up toys) are a whole other story.

Forget Monopoly (yawn!) and Scrabble (unless you make it Strip Scrabble). Buy a board game from a sex shop and see if you can … finish. With a little creativity, you can turn everyday games into something much steamier.

One of the gals in Patty Brisben’s, founder and CEO of Pure Romance, Inc., office turned the waiting game into an actual game by making a scavenger hunt for her honey, leaving come-hither clues, along with "accessories" for the night's festivities (massage oil, a candle, etc.).