Why Men Love Porn
Well, I’m here to relieve your worried minds. You may find this hard to believe, but watching porn is a completely normal activity for men. Many of us do it, and we don’t see anything wrong with it. In fact, guys think of watching porn as healthy and almost a necessity. We are hardwired differently than women. We’ve constantly got sex on the brain, and that can be frustrating, torturous and downright excruciating. Watching porn is a way to relieve that tension.
Sure enough, it can also be a way to remain loyal to our lady friends. I know that sounds twisted, the idea that we watch porn to stay loyal to you. But if we find ourselves attracted to other women, porn is a way to neutralize that. If we’re being tempted, we can just pop in some harmless porn.
“Temptation is trouble,” Vince, 26 says. “You need your release. That’s just the way it is.”
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| Edgy | |
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oh please! I see here comments about respect and double standards and while you (!) may have had one or two or twenty dealings with men who've cheated or been controlling or whatever, there are also many millions of men out there who've had just the same from women. Quite frankly those comments reveal more about your taste in men than anything. I've never had an issue with the fact that the pink thing with the cute bunny on it that vibrates at 20,000rpm can get my better other off in about 30 seconds where as I could screw her all day and she wouldn't even come close. That’s just physics, same as her sucking my big toe isn't really going to do a right lot for me in that department. Do you own a vibe? If you do, stop being a hypocritical sanctimonious what’s-it. Porn girls are only about 25% plastic; your vibe is (almost)100% Do you spend your time wishing the guy you're with could vibrate like a rabbit? If you don't (own one), stop being frigid and go buy one, they're great fun. Incidentally 'galaxygirl24', while the great majority of men actually can and do control themselves "just as much as women do," (what a thoroughly insulting comment by the way) I recently read a snippet from a girl who'd just come off one of the pills with the libido downing side effect who said that for a few days after the pill effects wore off, she was climbing the walls, couldn't get enough sex and really didn't want to try being restrained. Just like men can't comment on the pain of childbirth, until you have the same hormonal cocktail as a man - you can't comment on this issue. |
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| jillyjill | |
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"it can also be a way to remain loyal to our lady friends... But if we find ourselves attracted to other women, porn is a way to neutralize that. If we’re being tempted, we can just pop in some harmless porn" Ok, I see, I should be greatful that my man is busy pleasuring himself whilst looking at some blonde 38DD breasted woman rather that actually having sex with someone else? I should be glad that hes not cheating on me? I ask, are you really that incapable of controlling yourself? I'd love to know what men think about the wives or girlfriends looking at men with toned muscley bodies with 10inch penis's? I tell you now, those that are are thinking about having sex with THAT person and NOT there partner. Otherwise, whats the point in looking at it? |
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| uwishtoo | |
| respect: same old story - a man has double standards in this and alot of things. I guess Vince must only watch gay porn since he isnt into women ! lol They enjoy watching the women in the movies that make it possible for porn to be around but then want their own women to be a madonna. Same thing as when I met my now former (thank the LORD for the "former" status) fiance when I was in my mid 30's - I am almost 50 now. I was a size 2 then and had on a short thigh high white skirt and a red tank top and 4 inch heels while out clubbing with some friends. Yet a few years later on our way out to dinner - still at a size 2 I came out of the bedroom in a similar outfit and he had a FIT - he told me I wasnt allowed out of the house that way - yeah right, like I ever get "allowed" to do anything. So I sat down on the couch and turned the tv on and told him to have a good time at dinner - ALONE ! lol We ended up going to dinner with me dressed how I pleased but I did tell him then and several other times that he met me looking like that, I still had a great body and legs enough to pull that outfit off and he would just have to deal with however I chose to dress. Finally broke it off with him when his double standards interfered with alot more than just the way that I dressed. | |
| respectwomen | |
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wait, wait, wait...."i wouldn't want to be with a girl who would be into that,"??? Well Vince then why do you suppose we should want to be with you?? Are you not into that?? Oh so if I wanted to watch it with you, then that would be where it is wrong...oh okay I get it! By the way I have been around many men while they watched porn together, it is not "generally a solo activity". Where are your credentials?? I also, 100% agree with ladylaura119!! Women should not have to deal with all that we do from men!! And we still are where we are socially because of ignorant men, like this that stand up for porn any chance they get, but then bad mouth the women who they pay to make it for them. |
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| uwishtoo | |
| whats wrong with a couple being able to share in watching movies and spicing it up together ? | |
| sheila-takeabow | |
| It seems this article is saying most men watch porn solely out of boredom. if that's the case, why not make yourself productive and pick up a hobby or something? to me porn is sort of a "cheap thrill" that fulfills only a temporary pleasure, so it shouldn't be something men should "love." | |
| lily -- Los Angeles | |
| I would rather have my boyfriend (who lives across the country) watch porn than cheat. I do think that for guys, it is harder for them to control, shall I say "urges." If he was addicted (like some of his friends) then it would be a different story, but the occasional watch is not a big deal for me. | |
| galaxygirl24 -- Rome | |
| watching porn is NOT a completely normal activity for men. some men just get into the habit if buying porn, and watching it when they are bored or horny to get off. yes, temptation is out there, but men have the ability to control their hormones just as much as women do, and have to. come on, guys have to be smarter than this. i'm sorry, but the writer of this article is completely wrong on this subject, and i also agree with ladylaura119, this was offensive. | |
| legs2006 | |
| My guy watches porn, he isn't secretive about it, i just let him know i am not into it. I feel like it's his perogative. I would rather him watch porn in the privacy of his apt than be out at the strip clubs or worse...cheating. besides he gets horny and I reep the benefits!!! | |
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