The Truth About Sex Addiction
According to SexHelp.com, research shows some of the repercussions reported by sexual addicts include: loss of partner or spouse (40%), unwanted pregnancies (40%), suicidal obsession (72%), exposure to AIDS and venereal disease (68%), and legal risks from nuisance offenses to rape (58%).
SM: How does someone become a sex addict?
Pinsky: At least 60% of all addictions are accounted for based on genetics alone. You need to see some history of alcoholism or addiction somewhere in the family. The second thing is a history of childhood sexual abuse. So you add a family history of alcoholism or addiction to childhood sexual abuse and you’ve pretty much got your recipe. There are other people that develop sexual addiction as a part of a general addiction.
According to SexHelp.com, national surveys show that most sex addicts come from dysfunctional families. Usually at least one other family member has another addiction (87%).
The site says research has also shown a high connection between childhood abuse and sexual addiction in adulthood. Sexual addicts have reported experiencing emotional abuse (97%), sexual abuse (83%) and physical abuse (71%).
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I have to agree with Dr. Drew regarding Sex and the City. The characters were meant to be exaggerations of people, not people in real life, and I'm afraid some women have taken what they stand for (women empowerment) as being literal.
I believe I read an interview with Lindsay Lohan saying Sex and the City "inspired" her to date as many men as possible. Funny she said that since it proves what Dr. Drew is arguing.
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I have to agree with Dr. Drew regarding Sex and the City. The characters were meant to be exaggerations of people, not people in real life, and I'm afraid some women have taken what they stand for (women empowerment) as being literal.
I believe I read an interview with Lindsay Lohan saying Sex and the City "inspired" her to date as many men as possible. Funny she said that since it proves what Dr. Drew is arguing.
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Wow! What a different way to think of some of my favorite characters! You do have a point, though, Dr. Drew. Too many girls are growing up hoping to model their behavior.
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THANK YOU, DR. DREW!! You finally voiced what I've been thinking all along: the women on Sex and the City are quite literally unstable paradigms for our society. I found it sad that young women wanted to emulate their behavior. It was so shallow and none of them actually formed healthy relationships because (DUH!) it was all about sex! I just hope that more women read your article before the movie comes out and revisits their whole philosophy of what I like to call bologna "love"
p.s. I've always been a fan of yours :o)
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After my divorce, I believe I was falling into the initial stages of a sexual addiction. I've never had problems with any other form of addiction, but I felt very stuck. I had a friend who was brutally honest with me and helped me out of it. I think I'm back on track now, but it can be a little scary.
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I love sex and the city, but never actually thought of them as "sex addicts." Yes, maybe sexually promiscuous, but Dr. Drew is right, they omit the negative side of these actions on the show. There was never an episode with Carrie getting herpes or Samantha getting AIDS...
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