When do you begin the Golden Technique? When you sense he’s getting close to orgasming. Just stay with the same speed, rhythm and pressure—and don’t stop! Then when he erupts:

Hand Finish. If you’re not ready to taste him, substitute your hand for your mouth without missing a beat.

Lip Finish. With your lips over his head, press your tongue against his peehole. As you stroke him with your hand, let his spurts ricochet left and right off your tongue.

Mouth Finish. If you’re ready for him to come inside your mouth, but you don’t want to swallow, try this: aim him toward the inside of your cheek and use the back of your tongue to close off your throat.

First Licks. Ready? Let’s start with the basics for giving mind-blowing oral sex.

Lip Gloss. Flood your puckered lips with saliva, then glide them gently up and down and all around his shaft. Swirl around the head, too.

All-Day Sucker. Push your lips outward and create a gently suction on his shaft. Now suck ‘n glide up and down without losing the vacuum.

Laplander. With your tongue full, wide and relaxed, lick his penis upward like a melting ice cream cone.

Skin Flicks. Flutter and flick the tip of your tongue from the top of his penis all the way to the bottom of his balls.

Exotic Variations.
Flick Off. With his head in your mouth, flick or roll your tongue around the top. Try flattening your tongue to create more surface area.

Fruit Juicer. Twist your neck left and right so it feels like your mouth is swiveling on his penis as you go up and down. Add in the Flick Off and listen to him moan.
Ivory Hunt. Break the no-teeth rule—gently! Glide your teeth down the length of his shaft, or run the head of his penis over the broad-surfaced molars in the back of your mouth—with a feather-light touch!