Say When. Slowly run your finger up the underside of his penis. Tell him to say “There!” when you reach the most sensitive spot. Now make love to that spot by licking, nibbling and teasing.  

Remember, the best way to become confident when giving oral sex is to practice. We’re sure he won’t mind a little extra-curricular activity.

Dr. Sadie Allison is America’s Pleasure Coach, founder and CEO of, and award-winning author. Dr. Sadie earned her doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and is a featured expert guest on numerous television and radio programs. For free sex advice, visit Dr. Sadie's site at
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