Should You Share Your Sexual History
Confused? So are we. So we’ll stick to our own advice: Nothing good comes out of sharing your number, so keep it to yourself and stick to “I’m with you now, aren’t I?”
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I never tell. If you want a relationship w/someone, who cares what they did, it's what they do now. I've never asked a man that question.
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If he asks, he isn't for you :)
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That information is PRIVATE with capital letters.
Disclosing details even in an intimate situation, can lead to disasters later in life.
Keep it private...especially if you even think you may be famous one day..
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I asked the question, and I don't mind getting asked the question, in the spirit of openness and intimacy. Nothing can't be used against you if you're not ashamed of it. And I wonder how many women (or men) these men have slept with? I suspect a double-standard is at work...
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it's better to be in the now. the answer to that question would be more than i'd want to hear.
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I thought it was important to divulge your sexual history before becoming intimate with someone. I always think of it as protecting myself. Even if it's safe sex don't you need the info to protect yourself?
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If sexual history refers to the number of partners, then that info is better left unsaid unless one of you is a virgin (in which case, that discussion should be held way before you get to a bedroom). But in regards to STD's, then, YES!! The person who is infected should tell their partner. It's disrespectful to have sex with someone who is not infected when you know you are without telling them. They should be able to make an informed decision that's right for them. I personally wouldn't want to have sex with someone with an STD even if precautions could be taken to prevent me getting it. Other people might be OK with doing that...but that is a choice everyone person should be able to make for themselves.
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