Interview by Emily Florence
Editor’s note: When some of our editors proposed a piece on eating disorders—in honor of National Eating Disorders Awareness Week—our editorial meeting turned into a debate. Some were staunchly for it, others against and I, personally, was on the fence. “It’s been done so many times.” True. “But it affects nearly 10,000,000 women and girls.”* Also true.
I regret to say that it wasn’t until about ¼ of the way through the following interview that I realized how imperative it is to share Lindsay Segal’s story of her three-year battle with Anorexia Nervosa with Savvy Miss readers. She’s a woman who, in some ways, is like every single one of us. Maybe this subject has been covered. Maybe some consider it trite. But there is a reason we’re featuring Lindsay Segal as one of our Ambitious Women. This is a story you need to hear.
I want someone to see me and help me. But I can’t ask for help because I am scared. I am so scared all the time, scared of food, of getting fat, of everyone making me eat, but I am more scared to not have this. I wish it would end or I would end…
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| Olivia -- Tucson | |
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| babyallie -- West Hollywood | |
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| TinaVail -- Ojai | |
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There is a book by Marion Woodman called Addicted to Perfection that might be helpful to anyone suffering from an eating disorder. Thank you SavvyMiss for getting this article out. It helps us all to be informed about this...and thank you Lindsey for your courage to speak. |
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| LS -- New York City | |
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THANK YOU FOR THIS STORY. I can relate to soooo many things that Lindsay said. I'm a people pleaser to a fault, and I love when people say i look too skinny. When people tell me I look healthy, I take it as an insult and it motivates me to diet or work out more. Also, I have the "radar" and can spot someone with eating problems a mile away. Though i don't have full blown anorexia, I have definite food issues. Thanks for the reminder of how scary it could be if I let them get the best of me. LS |
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| MorganC | |
| My best friend has had an eating disorder for at least four years and she doesn't seem to be improving. I just don't know what to do or say anymore. I think she should get serious help but I'm not sure if it's my place to step in. How can I tell her without pushing her away? | |
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| Amber -- San Diego | |
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| krnfirestone -- Pleasanton | |
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Thank you for sharing your story. I have met you and I am so impressed with your strength! You are a beautiful person. I wish the best for you! A friend! |
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