When a reader asked about choosing between keeping her relationship and pursuing her passion, we knew we should ask the hardest-working people in show business. American Idols Blake, Gina and Phil took some time out of their nationwide tour to share their thoughts on the age-old question. Here’s what they have to say.

I'm an aspiring singer who's been in a relationship for about a year. Lately, I've been spending a lot more time making my singing a career not just a passion (I currently have a day job) and my boyfriend's been getting frustrated with the (less) time we've been spending together. I would like to see more of him too, but I also feel that right now I have to focus my time and energy on my singing career if I want to take it to the next level.

Do I really need to choose between having a relationship and pursuing my passion? Is there a way to balance both? You're Idols and obviously busy following your passion—what has been your experience with balancing (or choosing between) relationships and going after your dream?