I’m really into the guy I’m dating right now. Everything’s great except one teeny, weenie problem: After two months of holding out, we slept together—and it was horrible! (He made a lot of weird noises and faces and couldn’t keep it up longer than a commercial break.) I wasn’t sure how to tell him it was bad, so I asked what he liked and didn’t like, then told him what turns me on. The relationship’s ideal except for the sex. Fight or flight—what’s a girl to do?