How Important Is Good Sex?

I feel bad for this guy!! One, when a guy really likes a girl, his biggest fears are about his performance. If he goes soft, it somehow means he isn't a "real" man. Also, he wants to please you and is worried that he won't. Second, no one is born with killer sex skills, everyone is born a virgin. It's like talking and walking. It's a skill you have to learn. Third, guys learn sex skills from dubious sources and figure if something worked for an ex, it'll work for you. Last, this guy trusts you so much that he was willing to let you see him at his most vulnerable moment and have it be him, versus him playing Casablanca. And what do you do? Complain about it! Sure, the sex might not have been the best, but his performance issue is something that you can work on. The faces and weird noises? What are you? Some kind of critic? If it really bothers you that much, try looking at yourself next time. Maybe you were doing something weird, too! If you're guy wrote into a blog about how weird you were, how would you feel? Yeah. Not too good, huh? Give this poor guy a chance. You were with him once and assumed it would be earth shattering, mind numbing, OMG sex. And since it wasn't, you're considering DUMPING him? I'm sorry honey. But anyone who has sex with a guy once and dumps him because he does a couple of weird noises and has a performance issue isn't worth the guy's time. If he'd done something really off (like mentioned how much you remind him of his mother/sister/cousin) then, yeah, that would be something I'd dump a guy for. But for making a couple of weird noises and not lasting as long as you'd like? Shallow, much? I hope you're a perfect sex Goddess. Otherwise, you need to get some perspective.