There are ways to figure out your work style and your learning style, so why not your lovestyle? Psychologist John A. Lee interviewed hundreds of people and concluded that there were a number of different ways of “being” in a relationship. Understanding this makes it a whole lot easier to keep your sex life on course. Are you eros?
  • You see someone across a room and just “know” they’re for you.
  • Sexual feelings are important — love is central to your life.
  • It’s hard for you to find the right one — you’re choosy.
Are you ludus?
  • You hate to be tied down to events in the future with a partner.
  • In the past you have been accused of being emotionally immature or commitment-phobic.
  • You find loads of different people attractive.
Are you storge?
  • Love will fade but you can live with a friend for life.
  • Love is the basis of a strong community for you.
  • When you’re good friends with someone, sexual problems can be resolved.