|I've tried the mint trick - guys seem to love that one.|
|For years I felt a woman "getting on her knees" for a man was degrading. Boy was I wrong! Giving oral sex can be empowering and if it pleases my partner it pleases me. Great tips Dr. Sadie.|
|Giving head really is a "job" - I almost gag every time. I only give to receive.|
|AbbyGal -- Atlanta|
|The only thing I get out of giving head is knowing it's pleasing my partner and thinking about what I'll get in return. I've never understood how some women will just go down on a guy they're not in a relationship with and know they're not going to get anything in return. What is there to get out of it except maybe a sore jaw and bad breath?|
|I'm straight but penisis gross me out. Nothing about looking at one turns me on.|
|Ouch! You ladies are tough on us guys. Speaking on behalf of myself and the majority of my heterosexual male friends we like giving oral sex. It's a turn for us and for you. Is giving all that bad for you?|
|I'm into it for five minutes anything longer and I'm bored. The xxxtreme Dr. Sadie's talking about is a good one for men and women.|
|Maybe I'm the only woman in the world who does but I enjoy it. Good tips.|
|I look at it like a chore. I'd rather be doing something else but I still want to do a good job at it.|
|chicananerd -- ontario|
kileyrae, you are not alone. i enjoy it too. in fact, it's kind of a turn on for me in a sorta power-play kind of way. i think i may be trying at least a couple of these tips.
as for it giving you bad breath, ok, that's just weird. i have never heard of that at all.
|y'know, I really admire girls that can swallow. I can't. It's an acquired taste I must say.|
you don't even have to worry about that again, they came out with a body dust called lovers essence.
check it out...myloversessence.com
|I Love It! My husband loves it. I think it is the best part about sex other than the pleasure he gives me. Weirdly I dont care if I get anything in return, because I get pleasure form giving him pleasure. Ladies if you have any anxieties about doing it or dont feel confident, just relax and for good tips just read "Tickle his Pickle" Sadie is a great sex doc. Her book helped my man think I am the greatest and sexiest girl. Thank you|
|I agree with brandon, some women are selfish, they want thier man to go down, but they wont, its unfair. Also, don't do it just to get something in return, believe it or not your guy knows when you're not enjoying it or jsut want it o be over. If you get bored thats your bad, learn new tricks and learn how to have fun with it. if you think about it, he's giving you complete control of a very sensetive part of him, you do it right, he will be like putty in your hands. If you dont like doing it, do something else, dress up, learn some sexy dance moves and give him a lap dance or strip tease, if you are not confident about your body, your sexiness and seductive moves will void that out. When it comes to sex, guys are not just attracted to your body, its mostly your dirty talk, sexy moves, and how confident you are.|
|I wish that this was the situation for me. I love to please my man. I will give him oral anytime. The problem I have is him not returning the favor. He always did it before to the point I had to beg him to stop. Now I can't get him to do it at all. I asked if there was a problem with me but he said no. I just don't understand. And really don't know what to do. Any ideas people?????|
|I think that blow jobs are the most important thing when it comes to keeping a guy. seriously! ive just read jacks blowjob lessons and i my husband fell in love with me like that again|