how to boost your sexual confidence

We’ve all seen her, a woman whose face and body would never grace the cover of a fashion magazine, yet all eyes follow her when she enters a room. She walks with a certain flair, exudes confidence and positively radiates sexual energy. Everything about her says, “I am hot, I am desirable, I am sexy—and I know it.” She is a woman who feels comfortable in her own skin and confident with her sexuality and that self-assurance is contagious. Everyone—men, women, babies—want to be around her and her positive attitude. Have you ever wanted to be that woman?

Ask a group of men what they find most attractive about a woman and chances are they will mention confidence. A woman who feels attractive, comfortable with her body and sexuality, will naturally appear sexier to others. It is not necessary to look like a supermodel. And you should not allow beauty to be defined by men or the media. Create your own definition of beauty and you are the star.

When you feel sexually confident you take responsibility for your own pleasure. You are able to relax, let go of your inhibitions and fully enjoy sex. You know what you want and how to get it. You feel comfortable initiating sex and have no qualms about letting your partner know your needs and desires.

The key to becoming sexually confident is to love yourself and truly believe you are deserving of pleasure. Every woman, even the meekest among us, can learn to embrace her inner vixen. All it takes is a change in attitude. Don’t ask if you are sexy; know you are. Then do something everyday to remind yourself how wonderful you are. If you need help getting started, below are a few suggestions to help. Think of it like exercising: The more often you do it the stronger and more confident you will become.

Steps to becoming a sexually confident woman.