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Q&A with Sue Johanson: Sex and Body Image
Savvy Miss: Is it common for a woman to worry about the way her body looks while she’s having sex?
Sue Johanson: Absolutely. Particularly in a new relationship that’s not well established, where the trust level is not very high and where your partner is not a great communicator. If you feel that your body won’t compare to Britney Spears’s—and you do wear underwear [laughs]—then having sex with the lights on is disconcerting. SM: How do you think these body image worries impact our sex lives?
Sue Johanson: The first time you have sex with any new partner, it’s usually the missionary position because that’s the one that allows you to be the most covered up. With you on top, all he can see is your head and maybe your shoulders. So the rest of you, your cellulite and your stretch marks, aren’t going to show. I’ve worked with a couple who’d been in a relationship for months and the woman would not have sex with her t-shirt off. I just couldn’t understand why someone would want to have sex with her shirt on.
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| eeeeeeeee4686 | |
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| Jake400 | |
| OK ladies. First, guys look at gals admiring their best qualities, where women look at themselves and spot the worst quality. Second, its not what you got, its how you use it. Great looking gals can be rotten in bed; and regular woman can be fuckalious! If your guy is hard and all over you, your body can't be that bad! RJ | |
| MyOwnRules | |
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She wasn't saying "all" models are anorexic. She's saying that looking at the ones who are anorexic it's gross.
| lauramc70 -- Los Angeles | |
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I think it is very irresponsible for a doctor to make mean and genaralized statements by implying that all fashion models are anorexic. When I was younger I was as thin as some of these women and was that way because I have a fast metabolism which is genetic. Now at 36 and 5'7 I still only weigh 125, I eat whatever I want and exersize minimally just to stay toned. I'm not saying only very thin women should be models, why can't there be models who are all shapes and sizes like the general population? I have been accused many times of being anorexic or bulimic mostly by mean and nasty former female co-workers. But also by a very ignorant nurse in jr. high school who acted as if I had committed some kind of crime by being thin. These accusations were very hurtful to me and these women seemed to want me to have an eating disorder so they could feel good about why I was thin and about themselves. Dr. Johanson also talks meanly about how models' bodies look when they are naked. Should some of these women and girls have eating disorders they are going to extremely insecure and to talk negatively about the way they look will only make their conditions worse. Women or girls with these disorders should have our sympathy because they have an illness and should not be insulted. Mean descriptions would not be used for overweight women because it would seem insensitive. Even at my thinest, I always felt like a woman, yes a "real" woman. I always liked eating, sex, and life which Dr. Johanson says are liked by women who have flesh on their bones. I guess not by women who don't. Well she can kiss my skinny white ass! And of course a thin man would just be thought of as thin, not anorexic. Why is it that men can weigh 100 pounds or 350 pounds and do not face the same scrutiny! |
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| Olivia -- Tucson | |
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It's so true! I have so many friends that are afraid to really let go in bed because they're worried about what they look like.
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