Why Men Love Porn
Well, I’m here to relieve your worried minds. You may find this hard to believe, but watching porn is a completely normal activity for men. Many of us do it, and we don’t see anything wrong with it. In fact, guys think of watching porn as healthy and almost a necessity. We are hardwired differently than women. We’ve constantly got sex on the brain, and that can be frustrating, torturous and downright excruciating. Watching porn is a way to relieve that tension.
Sure enough, it can also be a way to remain loyal to our lady friends. I know that sounds twisted, the idea that we watch porn to stay loyal to you. But if we find ourselves attracted to other women, porn is a way to neutralize that. If we’re being tempted, we can just pop in some harmless porn.
“Temptation is trouble,” Vince, 26 says. “You need your release. That’s just the way it is.”
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| jillyjill | |
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"it can also be a way to remain loyal to our lady friends... But if we find ourselves attracted to other women, porn is a way to neutralize that. If we’re being tempted, we can just pop in some harmless porn" Ok, I see, I should be greatful that my man is busy pleasuring himself whilst looking at some blonde 38DD breasted woman rather that actually having sex with someone else? I should be glad that hes not cheating on me? I ask, are you really that incapable of controlling yourself? I'd love to know what men think about the wives or girlfriends looking at men with toned muscley bodies with 10inch penis's? I tell you now, those that are are thinking about having sex with THAT person and NOT there partner. Otherwise, whats the point in looking at it? |
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| savvyeve77 | |
| Sorry. Men who choose to look at porn and who believe that it is harmless is 100%, non-Christian. For those men who are Christians OR trying to be Christian men (you know who you are...), should know the Bible scripture: Matthew 5:27 & 28, Ye have heard that it was said by them of old, Thou shalt not commit adultery; but I say unto you that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. There is no "gray" area to this: Porn is wrong in every way, period. Through the years, society has gotten so corrupted into thinking that it is ok and acceptable and, has, therefore, made many women feel obligated to succumb to this very "pagan" concept. The result: Women feel inadequate, insecure, threatened, and hurt at the very thought that their "man" is choosing to get turned on by some other female other than themselves. This is a sad reality. Why be married if our men are choosing porn in lieu of getting turned on in sex with their beautiful girlfriends or wives that they chose to partnership with or marry? Most women would rather have a turn on with their man than turning to porn. Some men may have more sexual desires than women, but a true gentleman would exercise some control and respect to refrain from porn altogether. Many couples today need to concentrate on focusing on each other more...cuddling, talking, laughing--spending more quality time with each other to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. A healthy relationship will promote healthy and--by all means--"good sex". Will this world ever turn around and see the writing on the wall? Porn is an abomination to God. Furthermore, women who allow their boyfriends or husbands to look at porn are also contradicting Christianity. However, whether you are Christian or not, porn will, inevitably, have some negative effect on both partners and/or completely destroy your relationship; It is like a virus that grows unexpectedly, intertwining, unceasingly, mangling the most precious thing in life: Love. | |
| uwishtoo | |
| respect: same old story - a man has double standards in this and alot of things. I guess Vince must only watch gay porn since he isnt into women ! lol They enjoy watching the women in the movies that make it possible for porn to be around but then want their own women to be a madonna. Same thing as when I met my now former (thank the LORD for the "former" status) fiance when I was in my mid 30's - I am almost 50 now. I was a size 2 then and had on a short thigh high white skirt and a red tank top and 4 inch heels while out clubbing with some friends. Yet a few years later on our way out to dinner - still at a size 2 I came out of the bedroom in a similar outfit and he had a FIT - he told me I wasnt allowed out of the house that way - yeah right, like I ever get "allowed" to do anything. So I sat down on the couch and turned the tv on and told him to have a good time at dinner - ALONE ! lol We ended up going to dinner with me dressed how I pleased but I did tell him then and several other times that he met me looking like that, I still had a great body and legs enough to pull that outfit off and he would just have to deal with however I chose to dress. Finally broke it off with him when his double standards interfered with alot more than just the way that I dressed. | |
| respectwomen | |
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wait, wait, wait...."i wouldn't want to be with a girl who would be into that,"??? Well Vince then why do you suppose we should want to be with you?? Are you not into that?? Oh so if I wanted to watch it with you, then that would be where it is wrong...oh okay I get it! By the way I have been around many men while they watched porn together, it is not "generally a solo activity". Where are your credentials?? I also, 100% agree with ladylaura119!! Women should not have to deal with all that we do from men!! And we still are where we are socially because of ignorant men, like this that stand up for porn any chance they get, but then bad mouth the women who they pay to make it for them. |
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| uwishtoo | |
| whats wrong with a couple being able to share in watching movies and spicing it up together ? | |
| sheila-takeabow | |
| It seems this article is saying most men watch porn solely out of boredom. if that's the case, why not make yourself productive and pick up a hobby or something? to me porn is sort of a "cheap thrill" that fulfills only a temporary pleasure, so it shouldn't be something men should "love." | |
| lily -- Los Angeles | |
| I would rather have my boyfriend (who lives across the country) watch porn than cheat. I do think that for guys, it is harder for them to control, shall I say "urges." If he was addicted (like some of his friends) then it would be a different story, but the occasional watch is not a big deal for me. | |
| galaxygirl24 -- Rome | |
| watching porn is NOT a completely normal activity for men. some men just get into the habit if buying porn, and watching it when they are bored or horny to get off. yes, temptation is out there, but men have the ability to control their hormones just as much as women do, and have to. come on, guys have to be smarter than this. i'm sorry, but the writer of this article is completely wrong on this subject, and i also agree with ladylaura119, this was offensive. | |
| legs2006 | |
| My guy watches porn, he isn't secretive about it, i just let him know i am not into it. I feel like it's his perogative. I would rather him watch porn in the privacy of his apt than be out at the strip clubs or worse...cheating. besides he gets horny and I reep the benefits!!! | |
| ladylaura119 | |
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This article was SO offensive. Guys watch porn. I get it. For now, I'm okay with that. (I think women have bigger problems, like rape and unequal pay that we need to deal with first). However, for this writer to say: "Those silicone-enhanced babes on the screen mean nothing. At the end of the day, your guy wants you. You’re his number one, not some cheap-ass bimbo in some cheap-ass movie" is so rude. Men encourage women to do something, and then bad mouth them for doing the thing that men originally wanted the women to do. I can't imagine the balls on the guy who wrote this article, and the editor who let that line be published. If this was Maxim or some trashy guy mag, he could get away with that--but you can't talk down to women like that in a womens magazine. |
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