I have recently started having an intimate relationship with my next door neighbor. We have lived next door to each other for several years but havent hooked up until recently. He is recently divorced and I have been divorced for 6 years now. When we started seeing each other I realized how much we have in common. It is really incredible all the things that we both like to do. Anyway,... unfortunately my feelings are getting stronger but his feelings seem nonexistent. I honestly dont think he is seeing anyone else, so I dont think there is another girl in the picture. I am not looking to get remarried or move anyone in, but I do want him in my life more than he is now. Is there any hope for me? Has anyone ever been in this situation and it eventually turned into something more? Help! My heart is breaking!

Soozieq - I think there is hope, but I would just take things slowly. And if you have been dating for a month or two, I think you have every right to ask him about being exclusive. He just might not be ready right now. Feel out the situation, and take a look at his actions. Maybe he's just not ready for commitment, but will be in a month. My best friend has been in this situation, and it worked, (she was actually the one who had recently come out of a divorce and was leery), but now they are married and couldn't be happier. Not all situations do work out, so take it slow and good luck.

Wow soozieq you should probably be very careful with this. Since you said this is a booty call. You should probably not attempt to make it anything serious if that what he see this situation as. Have you talked to him and asked him what is the status. Like are you dating, or is it a booty call? That would be the best approach in my opinion. It better than guessing you know. Anyway he's a video I found that might hep you or at best make you laugh and brighten your day. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qd2DU1XRidY

Sarah

the chances of going from booty call to monogomous relationship is highly unlikely. once you set up that dynamic as your relationship it's really hard to change it into something else. but def give it a try and see what happens
good luck