1st I will start by saying Hi every1 I am new too this. I have a lil promblem in my relationship. I have been living with my b/f for a year now we have a son who 1 1/2 yrs old. I never see him during the week b/c we work different shifts. :( During the weekends I know he needs time for himself But I feel Like he never spends time with me and when i keep asking him too STOP playing poker too spend time with me he says I am nagging him.. PLEASE help What do I do? how do i get him too want to spend time with me?

Instead of telling him to stop playing poker, try asking him if you guys could spend a day together. Try to find something you both like. Don't suggest chick flicks, or shopping (unless it's for lingerie) since most guys don't like that stuff. Ordering him to stop hanging out with his buddies is nagging and controlling. Asking him to spend time with you is less accusing and makes it more appealing.

Many times guys will spend more time with their girlfriends if the girls greatly increase the amount of sex they are having with them!