My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and lately I have been wondering if it is the right time to be moving in together. Obviously I am the one bringing it up and willing to talk about it he either doesn’t want to or come back with "I’m satisfied where we are now". Don’t get me wrong I am so happy to be with my boyfriend and we love each other very much, I just can’t help but feel stalled in our relationship right now. I have received a new job that pays well enough for me to move out on my own (I still live with my parents, they are a whole other issue) and do well for myself but I am the type that HATES being alone. Living at home is great, but it doesn’t allow me to take the chances and have the experiences I need to take on real life. I need advice to know if I am rushing this, or if I will know when the time is right, or is my boyfriend dodging a serious step in our relationship. I want advice because I don’t want to go on in our relationship never really getting anywhere.

Don't jump into it too quick! Moving in is a big change and a big financial commitment. Is he ready to share the expenses and responsibility with you? Is he ready to be with you there every night? Are you ready for constant sexual demands? Talk this over with him in detail BEFORE you go through the expense of finding a place, moving all your stuff. and signing a lease.

Moving out of your parents home is a big step for anyone. It will take some time to adjust and it may be to soon to move in with your boyfriend. First take on living alone and being independent than make the decision about moving in with your boyfriend. Your relationship will change just by you living alone, so just take it one step at a time. You should think about getting a roommate, they can be fun and it may be easier since they won't expect much or demand anything from you but half the rent.