My husband and I been together for a long time, however niether of us have had any other sexual partners. Now we are both starting to want to try having sex with someone else. We are both very happy with our marriage and our sex life, but we have gotten curious. We wonder what it would be like with someone different, and what we might be able to learn that we could use together. The only thing holding us back is that we are concerned that after we would feel guilty about it. I am worried also, because of past relationships, that if we don't do something like this that it might cause other problems in the future. I would appriciate any advice.

I don't think having sex with other partners is a good idea. I can promise you it's going to create problems. There is no way you will both be fine after doing this... I really adivse you guys to just experiment with each other and do different things together. The only problem with my adivce is one of you might just try and have sex with another partener without it being known. Sorry, im not giving great adivce BUT overall i say dont do it. Think about how you'll feel after knowing your husband has had sex with another woman. ..i just could NEVER do that. it would kill me

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