My husband and I have been together for 10 years and I am someone who has never had a problem with him masturbating every now and then. But now it is bothering me very much b/c we have sex EVERY night and he still masturbates and on top of that I have caught him several times (he doesn't know) licking his own c**. That is so gross to me and doesn't turn me on at all! I mean maybe if we were in the moment together then I could see that but to do it on his own to hide the fact that he was masturbating diturbs me. And he is ALWAYS looking at porn on the computer, craigslist personal ads and now a site for mens confessions of GAY sex! What is going on with my husband? Should I be worried?